Lovely article. I can remember AA a teenager, wanting to watch TV with my family, but whenever I came into the room, they had “something else” to do. Yes that’s true I have also many problems? I am kidding myself thinking our marriage can be salvaged? No one wants me around including my wife of 25 yrs. You need help. I sometimes cry uncontrollably when I feel hurt, but I do not understand the source of my pain.I really do not try and pursue relationships because I know they will end horribly. My father was the physical one while she would just use mental abuse. My husband used to say I should kill myself. The best way to start fighting the critical inner voice is, therefore, to do two things: identify when it’s operating and understand where on earth it comes from. Are they just pandering me because they pity me? My family see me as a problem , now I am at uni , it’s like they want me to stay and never darken their doorstep again , I am doing ver well at uni , but I am so lonely soo lonely , this can’t be normal . I relate to this a lot. But I have tried being obnoxious to see if that would get me heard at least…but the reaction from the group when I do that is someone calls me out to put me in my place and I end up humiliated. But what if, I get LEFT OUT in this group too. I am ashamed to tell my family i don’t want to disappoint them. Has anybody seen her?” while I ask all the time when a person is missing, whether I like them or not. Nobody loves me, nobody owes me a thing! And the scary part is the demon is your own voice.”. I want to ask if our inner voice is with us then how we are alone? Most of my life I would say I’ve endured a lot of bullying, feeling ostracized and constantly pushed away and treated at a distance. There are people who care about you. (Incontinence is also very common today…as well as Alzheimer’s, CFS, Type II Diabetes…all stemming from B1 deficiencies) I would recommend mega doses (1-2 pills with meals) of B1, in the form of Benfothiamine. The ancient Greeks had six words for love. I fear many of us are squandering our efforts on those who wouldn’t make good friends to begin with… Thank you. I read this kind of stuff over and over again but knowing it does not make the thoughts change. I am not alone i never thought other feel this way too. Directed by Irving Brecher. I stayed because I wanted to see if he ever would run out of himself. I already tried auto suggestion that I am pretty and smart and well deserved but the reality shows me something very different. When you feel like you never do anything right. I believe in you guys and know you can do anything. I didn’t say it was an easy solution, Elizabeth, Try new palces, new people, new activities, new friendes.. Get distracted from who around you, get bussy, be happy you deserve it! These include, but are not limited to, petting an animal, soaking in a hot bath, or simply giving a gift to another. I apologized, but now this friend won’t even see me. In America, the older a woman gets, the more likely it is that there are 2 women for every man. I am your friend, Me too, I see myself in some of y’all. I help people and However, the more actions you take against your inner critic, the more confident you’ll become. She has gone out of the country and has been phoning me to taunt and laugh at me over the Christmas and New Year. I really relate to it. We can’t ignore reality and it is so painful. It has been very helpful. Sadly I’ve been feeling “nobody likes me.” since I was a kid. The beauty of the humanity is that it tries through its laws, charters, and constitutions to make life more fair. I feel so alone but I feel like if I talk about it then people will feel like Their dragging me around just having to handle me without wanting to help. i’m just so sorry. But I am so sensitive that I couldn’t control myself from crying. I feel soo unwanted unloved and useless my husband has an OCD problem he fights with me everyday over household chores, he makes me feel like i can do nothing right. I was lazy for years and didn’t think I could change my negative thinking. So, yes, there are people who are unlovable. Even if it’s just a little more than your mom does. “Keep quiet,” the voice barks. This got really bad to the point where I was even violently attacked. I literally thought to myself that I must just have one of those personalities that people don’t like. Recently, I have accepted that it’s never going to change now (OK… I’m old… I admit it!). I am not saying we are more important, just a special and unique different just as needed as quartz, but not quartz. I deeply appreciate your thoughts and it made a lots of sense to me. Many so-called psychologically healthy individuals are initiating or instigating the hatred towards people who are not as popular as they are. Something in us simply fails to emanate this invisible glue that makes other humans bond. After this epiphany I’m finally starting to feel okay for the first time ever. I help out in group works, help people when they ask me to, smile and be polite, but I don’t understand how these qualities aren’t enough to gain me a friend. Human beings are drawn to beauty – beauty of Mother Nature, beauty of character, beauty of the human form, beauty of animals, beauty of art, and many other forms of beauty. I just find I don’t really care about that anymore. Life is not fair. Sorry for long comment. I’m 60 and have felt like most have described here since I was a kid! I’d not worry too much about my own family especially if do not find anything in you for their disdain or indifference. It will take a while to find your tribe, but they are out there. If I don’t put forth exceeding amounts of effort I won’t have any social interactions at all. Once I started using hobby clubs (art and gaming for me) and local online forums, even sites like okcupid or match (you can set them to friendship searches), I found a lot more people in my area who appreciate me for who I am. I have done numerous things and made some casual friends. Thank you psychalive… I had lost all hope recently but this article gave me new hope to live. However, I can’t tell you my relationships changed. I’ve reached out repeatedly and tried to spend time with them over a prolonged period of time, but…nothing. Now years later her other kids can have trouble her son can marry a divorced woman with a teen boy that the woman supposedly was abused, her daughter can split with her husband but somehow it isn’t her daughter’s fault it’s all the husband, her grandkids can split with their baby daddy, but no one else is supposed to bring in anyone else from a split home like my oldest daughter boyfriend that his parents split when he was young. Everybody was busy, so nobody came. : ). No one likes you.” This actually helps you start to separate and see the voice as an enemy and not the real you. When you are rejected by your family even your own kids all based on false accusations how can you ever change how you feel. That was supposed to be who I thought as a friend & who for one visit started to get spiritual counseling to let my daughter see that it wasn’t wrong to get help, to let her see I would be willing to do that to help her & me for a relationship. Her whole entire family and friends hate me. I do have joy in life though. I hope it helps. It isn't specifically about romantic love. They seem to b crazy about me and then all of a sudden.. they walk without looking back!! So do we need them ya nobody’s perfect but just a little trust would be nice or help here or there. Hear, No one likes me in the school that i go to what should i do. I could have written that myself. Hi John, I have had the same experiences in life. We can notice the times it seeps in and tampers with the filter through which we see ourselves and the world around us. There were people in my life I have helped, I have been listening to their problems, I was trying to be supportive, I have feed them with jokes and funny stories and interesting facts and they were laughing and they were interested in what I say, and they looked like they have a good time around me but still, they just won’t ever text me, never invite me anywhere, never initiate anything, like they forgot about my existence at the moment a came out of their sight. The best definition of love is a state in which the boundaries between people no longer exist. You decide your worth. am so lonely! My life should be great but all of a sudden I’m a bully when all I do it try and help. My father was alcoholic and he never bothered much in family life. My so-called girlfriend must be really insecure if she must team up with her control freak siblings in badmouthing me behind my back. My ex has brainwashed my two children into wanting little to nothing to do with me. I can’t tell you not to let it affect you, because it will, and it has! I’m a unique and worthy person who deserves friendship. To have people say, “your own brother doesn’t even like your stupid a**”? The women whom I’ve admired from afar for their minds (mostly) are straight. I am an outcast. Or give them my contact info and I never hear back even though it seemed we made a real ‘friend’ connection. Makes it easier to tell the truth of how things are not so good for us , instead of pretending . Lastly, values make a difference. I have a very thin plastic barrier to protect myself from getting hurt but it isn’t very durable and so people decide to stick their spoons in my icecream where it hurts. Put on a happy song, think back to one of your happier times.. do you not smile? I wish someone would point out what I’m doing ‘wrong’ when I interact with other people, I feel that I’ve managed to withdraw myself to the point that I just come across as someone who isn’t approachable, or maybe I just don’t recognise the non-verbal signals that people use, and because I don’t respond to them, I’m considered as someone who keeps everyone at arms-length. There’s nothing wrong with me, and nothing wrong with no one liking me. Im 43 years old and the saga continues. laughs! Hi, I’m not shy but I’m not obnoxious. Wow. And my relationship with my older sisters is strained and not good. Beth same have happened to me I know how hard feels even I am finding solution for this thing? Hello I always feel lonely when my gf goes out and enjoy her self or she is either on her phone and I’m sat there bored and she’s never off it. This voice will eventually fade into the background. I should also say, deep down, I NEVER want to hurt people and I always hope they will live the happiest, best life…but that’s my heart…my head think they don’t like me, when maybe it’s I who is hard on others AND myself…my interactions never feel natural. When someone doesn’t make eye contact with us, it says, “See? As I thought back I realized that I was not imagining the snide remarks, uninvites, and dismissive gestures that I’m sure you all are familiar with. I ended up feeling worse about myself in the end. It has been a journey and I am thankful for it because it cultivated some great character traits. Who told you that myth? Now I’m 68 and stopped dating or trying since the last man who I spent 2 years with left with my money. I am still insecure and can be withdrawn and am still healing, that’s why I searched online and found this amazing site. People who do not go deep may feel uncomfortable around deep people, perhaps they don’t want to be discovered and only want to be around the people who can be fun at non-deep levels. You can still have a full, happy, and meaningful life even if no one wants to share it with you. I welcome challenges. While I was there, I had to take a pill to go to sleep. I would say that your greatness is hard for the average person to be around, and, although unintentional, you surface their deepest insecurities. I’m no expert, but with your brains and accomplishments, I’m afraid people are simply intimidated by your mere existence. Having a great job will not make you a happy person.If you are lonely without money,trust me you will be lonely with money…But loneliness is just a state of mind..You can be lonely in a room full of people and you can be happy alone as well. SO…I want to be liked, but I find it hard to like other people….tough. Sometimes people can’t see our light but it doesn’t mean that we don’t shine. I can’t keep a doctor or even a therapist, they all hate me. Thank you for pouring them out here. There is someone out there for everybody. And for the women that are very independent now which most of them really don’t need a man anymore. I offers her and her brother a drink on Wednesday but as soon as she goes alone to her brothes they end up drinking even though they said they had enough two days and don’t want me around. I cried. I have a couple of friends, but they are usually busy with their families. Even demons gotta sleep.”, Step Four: Think about how your voices affect your actions. I’ve spent years in therapy trying to learn how to treat people so that they will like me. I see my friends who are married settled seem soo happy me and my husband do nothing together only shopping and household of chores he doesn’t take me anywhere or ever surprised me i have to plan everything including my bday he never gets me anything he doesn’t even know what i like? As a Christian I prayed but I could not feel better about being me. I could care less if I see God rewarding me. My band is Annie and 45. So go out there and tell people how you feel. Since I was a child Now I feel like the only thing that I miss to find peace is to know why. The story alongsid ethe photo is not real. We’re so quick to indulge its claims that we mistake them for our real point of view. No one likes me.They think I m weird n even my own friend makes fun of me.I feel alone in my class. My brother, at a very catastrophic time in my life, said to me that “He never knew anyone who knew me who liked me.” And then a family member was kind enough to tell me that everybody in the extended family hated me. Im quite shy around people idk so that makes it hard for me to make friends. Lastly, check out with a psychologist if you can afford it for a few hundred bucks, if it really bothers you why you are seen invisible. We simply feel it. I talk to my family and that’s it. Agape love, the kind of love that allows us to love all of humanity selflessly, is not an easy one. Visit museums. You know what’s worse? Awww same here but you will always feel welcome in god’s heart and that’s all you need to talk to you when you feel like that. Oh I do relate to you , we try but would like to be heard too . You cannot resolve anything with someone who refuses to talk to you. Its hard to be liked. I am sensitive with criticism, if someone said something bad,I thought to myself that I was just being sensitive but actually their words hurting me. Unless all that obvious exclusion and unwilingness to speak to me is just an act of covert love, in that case, excuse me for being so silly to think otherwise. I m pursuing degree course i dnt like to meet relatives.It make me feel they will ask questions or what they want.I feel so i think because i m nt beautiful nt yet got a degree i older than my freinds. Internal Family Systems therapy is the go-to paradigm; it’s a way of moving closer to aspects of ourselves that originated as proactive defenses to childhood threats, but which now cause trouble for us. People don’t mind if I am around, they seem to actually enjoy my presence so I’m not like a hated villain or anything. Also, did you read the article before commenting? You must learn to be a warrior of life and enjoy it, and you can, but you have to dig deep down and do a lot of introspection. Nobody loves Me Maria Schrader and Pierre Sanoussi-Bliss in "Nobody Loves Me" by Doris Dörrie. The worst feeling for me is when people close to me or those I work with give up on me. His mother doesn’t acknowledge what he is & had done a her damage to make him stay grounded to be near her. It is the hypothalamus in the brain that produces oxytocin in a variety of situations. I was raised by a mother who told me how fat I was, lazy, stupid, and how no one in the family liked me. I love the Lord. Plus I feel like a real ‘nothing’ in this world. To this day, I am alone because of it but even though I am alone, I am not lonely. As a kid I was a straight A student but my family always talked about how bright and smart is my older brother is and they always said that I’m a very hard worker. I’d much rather have someone say they like me at first blush than to say they don’t. Thank you. I’m tired of wasting my energy on people who clearly don’t deserve it. Even if one is open, there are characteristics that repel love. I had two friends in my lifetime, and both times they didn’t want to spend any time with me, they just wanted to use me. No one should have to fight all the time. What’s wrong here ?? It has been this way my whole life. In addition a GOOD B complex…one a day is very important too as the Bs work synergistically. Life is so hard right now! All calls went unanswered and unreturned. Like you, I go in hopeful and happy, and later find I’m not included. Even if you can’t remember any special moment… the fact that you opened up and shared your feelings here with others who are hurting, has been a help so we know we’re not alone. Either that, or you have very poor social understanding and act in a way that makes people afraid of you etc. That was very well said. What about if you are really lonely and it is not only a state of mind? As a child, I was always left out but really, really wished other kids would like me. But it ends there. I want a girlfriend. Think about it! ❤️, Stay strong Cora! It requires an acknowledgement that our particular character might need to be more in line with the characters of others. One won’t speak to me at all even after having contact for a while after the divorce. Sounds like you put a lot of your worth into the opinions of your parents, comparing yourself to your brother, and mixed with a lot of real or delusion when it comes to the opinions of others. Snobby cliques enpower themselves by ostricising others with talents they themselves don’t have. Maybe she’s mad at you. Completely alone . Here’s the thing: I’ve sort of given myself that same advice at various points through the years, and yeah, it definitely works. Required fields are marked *, The Latest The Critical Inner Voice and Addiction It would be hard to overstate the massive impact of this past…. Your email address will not be published. It has helped me be able to look at the voice as something separate from me instead of it being me which is a great start. They will get worse. I never disclosed my condition for fear of ridicule, I tried confiding in my boss and he doesnt get it, he also treat me differently now and I don’t like it. Customer reviews. Ive felt crippled by my past and that horrible internal voice that always puts me down and tells me Im useless and unlovable, finding a way to lessen it and gain some confidence would be my goal now. I meant, you cannot change their ways of talking, but you can change on how to accept their bad words, it’s hard. We also tend to be influenced by how our parents felt toward themselves, if they felt awkward socially or had low self-esteem, we take on some of their self-critical perceptions as our own. Before we were married everything was perfect he was loving and caring. Just my thoughts. While everybody loves beauty in another, studies show that people are attracted to the kind of looks that they were exposed to in their formative years. While I do believe that we can find truly loving worth while people and connections in life it can take a life time and depends on the quality of selection. I nvr felt loved by my mom as a child and always tried to do things to pls her but never got the loving reaction I expected. My own father reported me out of anger & he’s done & said alot worse, but nobody has reported them. I don’t think you should ever change who you are just because other people don’t like you. I know it’s the opposite of an ideal situation, but somehow I happen to find your comment refreshing. Should I hold my breath for love? I spend most weekends alone in the house. How can you even pretend to know psychology when you just invalidated the actual reality of many, many people? We often hate things in other people that we unknowingly hate about ourselves. When other people say or do these things, it reaffirms that others hate me as I always knew they did and so I hate myself. And many of us Good men really Hate being Single too. All my extended family are dead apart from a few distant cousins who are strangers. That’s all I can say I don’t know how to start that inner but I tried that party situation but the next day I feel I said and did something stupid. Just be nice to the rest of the family don’t talk to mom about anyone . I’m a newley wed who has never felt more alone, than being single. Bernie this is very interesting, and I’m not going to argue and say you’re wrong. I will rewrite it to fix it. I’m friendly and smile a lot but am never included. People I go out with. My mind went to dark and self destructive places. This feeling has almost no bearing in reality. You can actively try to divert your mind and start to notice how this voice influences your behavior. I live alone and, outside of work, no one speaks to me, calls/texts me, or visits me. Nick, I too appreciated Johns thoughts, and especially when he said ‘there are endless battles to be fought.’ Endless. 3.9 out of 5 stars. They carried the same nagative values into adult life, the same mental idea that it is okay to tread on other people to remain popular, to reach the top – and that is exactly where they are! I cry almost every night after any gathering with friends, I’m in a terrible place in my life right now and I feel so lost, I do not know what to do. Hans. I decided to keep in touch. My inner voice tells me that what I’m seeking I will never be able to find. That is the reality of life. My parents basically set me up to become a battered wife. A throw-away age that also includes people. “You’re so boring. Some people say that I am soo emotionally detached and laid back that I’m virtually lying down! I know people that are more rude than me, less rude than me, funnier than me, less funny, smarter, dummer, more interesting, more boring, more altruistic, more selfish, less shy, more shy, more narcisistic, more modest and all of them have more friends at any time then I had in my whole life. Just talk about your lack of confidence. Fight your inner voices! It is the end of my first semester away at college and I feel very very lonely, anxious, and depressed. I even pray i wasn’t alive. I don’t want to blame myself so I end up crying, trying to find on why I am so sad about that. You have stated my life perfectly. Now I live back in Oregon, and a friend of mine, a black guy, just uploaded a playlist of Pink Floyd and punk rock to the cloud for his students. I now live even further away… & know no one, so see no one, as I have always been the one to maintain the relationships I’ve had. I try not to expect anything from people and resolve not to be easily offended. Slowly the haze started to clear as I learned to not feel responsible for the captious comments of others. I don’t need people to be happy. I have very few friends and am becoming so lonely I just wish life would hurry up and end. I’ve learned to be alone, and it’s still sometimes a little painful, because when I imagine I have friends, it feels great but it is a thing that I probably cannot have anymore, which bothers me but the idea that I will never have a helicopter bothers me too and I am able to live with it quite comfortably. Where do you live now? no matter how much I try to be kind, fair, loyal.. and plain good, I seem to come out on the other side on my own. It does seem to me that I have placed an invisible barrier around myself which people think I won’t let them past. I am responsible for alot of them but not all, and I am careful of what I take serious when I hear vicious rumors. Articles like this somehow try to push me into thinking that I am imagining things, that I’m just too critical to myself and shouldn’t blame myself like that (paradoxically blaming me by that more than I blame myself :D) but nope, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with me or my way of thinking. Nobody misses me, Nobody cries, Nobody thinks I'm a wonderful guy. It’s either the people are too weird or it’s too far away. I was thinking the same thing Lou! Hans, Your email address will not be published. Don’t let her make you feel this way. I am careful not to dominate but if I speak even three words, someone will always interrupt me and it is as if I am just a ghost nobody notices. I always notice it’s the rude demanding people who always get noticed and have everyone trying to please them. People do seem to dislike me a lot less if I interact with them in small doses. It makes me incredibly said that the only emotional outlet available to me, is one that I need to pay for:-(. My mother died 3 years ago and I have no contact with my father. That’s your power. It’s not someone physically going out to me and telling me what I am doing ‘wrong’ when I do it, and what to do instead. Where does he live now? 30 customer ratings. I recently discovered a solution to my no-one-likes-me problem. I was wrong for keeping my kids away from certain things that I needed to let my kids make their own teen mistakes that I couldn’t protect them forever. I will try to do the same as well from now on. Persistence is key. No one invites me to anything as I am isolated. Have only seen my mom twice in the past 23 yrs & she thinks nothing of it. There were functions happening & third parties would make me aware of them after the fact, as why I wasn’t there which made me look like I wasn’t interested. Sometimes I think it’s easier and simpler this way but I hate being lonely. But a better approach to the “inner critic” for many of us is not doing battle with it, but understanding its self-protective origins, and trying to work compassionately with it. Look forward and if u need any thing im I can’t say anything, but I want to. Everybody wants to report everybody about any lil thing. Sometimes it’s just the truth of who we are – we simply are truly that ugly, that unattractive, that less-than-100% perfect, that means people, especially men, don’t like us, won’t even give us the time of day, won’t even deign to spit on our shoes, because we’re not even enough to get past that first social hurdle of looks. 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